TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: shares the way we are personally programmed at a very early age with our belief system and how we relate to others is embedded in our minds. At a very early age we take in the information being shared with us and form a defining algorithm that we use to base everything we believe and become from then on. Some of us have been pre-programmed since birth, others develop it within the first 5 years of life.
This program then forms the basis of our thoughts, feelings and actions that unfold as we grow and develop. The beliefs we have of ourselves come from our parents or caregivers. We form a sense of self from the way we are treated and addressed as someone of importance, or someone of insignificance. From there, our emotional self develops strategies for us to use in order to survive in our environment.
When we are cherished and adored – we develop a sense of self confidence and importance that will allow us to be more outgoing and inquisitive about life and how we live it. When we are treated as insignificant, we hold a low sense of self worth and and self esteem and spend the rest of our life trying to justify our existence and value.
Depending on which way you started out, you will have a lifetime to explore and develop a sense of who you are, and who you are in relation to others. Most relationships are designed to test us and help us evolve into a higher perception and version of ourselves through awakening and awareness of what works and what doesn’t, what is loving and what is not , and this will help us define and redefine ourselves all along the journey.
PERCEPTORS: is the way we see others in relation to ourselves and how they behave or act in our relationships will be affected by our perception.
RECEPTORS: are the way we see ourselves in relation to others and how we either blend in or stand out making us feel confident or uncomfortable. How close we allow others to get is greatly defined by this part of us.
REJECTORS: are the instinctive patterns that we use based on our personal programming from birth. We are constantly measuring or judging what is safe or unsafe in our world in relation to who we believe ourselves to be. Shutting down our heart and protecting ourselves from hurt seems to cause more of it to be attracted to us like a magnetic field. We learn to reject others instead of accept them, because we fear we are not acceptable or lovable – so we push them away to protect ourselves from hurt. This also pushes away opportunities, possibilities and blessings we are craving.