LOSS~GRIEF~MOURNING

TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: brings a new awareness to my soul as I mourn the loss of my best friend.   It is not that I regret her passing, but take time to celebrate her life.  When we have a kindred spirit who understands who we are at the deepest level of our being and embraces all that comes with that, we are truly blessed.  Not everyone can accept us in that way and when we find someone that can, the joy and pleasure of their role in our lives is irreplaceable.  As a sacred bond it is important to realize that not everyone finds that kind of friendship and kinship to share. I feel truly honoured that I have had that experience.

Learning to embrace the loss is part of what challenges us to let go.  Not to let go of the memories, the special moments or the challenging ones, but to truly honour that they existed.  Focusing on the blessings becomes a way of being comforted and soothed as the days unfold.  In those moments when the mind forgets they are no longer present, it is being ok with that thought where you want to pick up the phone and tell them something that just happened they way you used to do.  It is taking a moment and making that call on a higher level where you speak with them in spirit and share the same message knowing that on some plain of existence they are smiling and responding with the usual enthusiasm or interest.  There is no distance when it comes to spirit – and in that way our friendship continues.

LOSS= the sense of finality that comes with the passing of a dear friend or loved one
GRIEF= the process we go through as we learn to let go while still holding sacred memories
MOURNING= the sense of empty space that comes when someone is no longer there

SYMPATHY~EMPATHY~EULOGY

TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: reveals the illusions we live through as we evolve and ascend into our highest vibrational state of grace.  This takes many lifetimes, and a willingness to allow the development of our soul to enhance our true purpose in being.  We attract those who support our quest for learning at the vibrational level we are currently at.  To evolve past that, we must be ready and willing to let EVERYTHING & EVERYONE go.  This does not mean the end of our existence as a human being, but it initiates the transformation of our humanness into our divine being.  The difference is our capacity to love ourselves and others equally.

I have discovered through my meditative process, that I have been living with a severe addiction (we all have them), but mine was being addicted to helping people who do not want to be helped.  I now realize that it was not my job in the first place, but as a caring and compassionate soul I felt it was my DUTY to at least offer to support them while they were still asleep so they could feel loved and appreciated.  This illusion is no longer present as I have finally woken up to the truth of who I am, and the clarity is amazing.  Here are my revelations to share with you . . .

Source showed me in a very clear vision how the current energy exchange is working when we think we are helping and healing, we are actually contributing to the issue and illness of our loved ones!  The vision was of someone with a cold coming and talking to me.  They were obviously sick, complaining about their state of suffering, while coughing in my face.  They wanted me to hear their story – they wanted me to feel their pain – then needed me to feel sorry for them.  So a few moments later (days in the vision) I was coughing, sneezing and feeling miserable with the same cold they had.  Now they appeared again and said – I know how you feel – I had it too.  What they were actually letting me know, was that they were glad I was still at the same place they were in the need to suffer.  It was not a gift of compassion or caring that was being shared, but the unwillingness to heal their own situation as long as they could get others to stay suffering with them.

SYMPATHY= feeling sorry for self or others who are experiencing difficult, challenging or hurtful times in their quest for knowledge and ascension is not helping at all.  This does not help them, but contributes to their willingness to remain in their illusion as long as we are willing to listen to their sad stories, we support them in their state of stuckness.  The illusion is that they are asking for help, when in fact, they simply want you to feel sorry for them and to listen to their list of reasons why they are so unhappy and alone in their illusion.  When we do sympathize – we lower our vibration to where they are and join them in their sorrow or sickness.  This will never achieve the upliftment of either one . . . it simply perpetuates the state of stuck for both people.

EMPATHY= the feeling of compassion and understanding that comes from living through similar experiences that have taught us to be more patient and kind with others who are still exploring the state of suffering through not allowing themselves to fully heal.  It is knowing that we can only inspire them to make it through to a better place by showing them it is possible.  No amount of help or giving directions and instructions will help them break through to where you are.  It is by example alone that we can be of service here.  Do not try to relate to their state of being in any way.  It is a fruitless idea that will not bear any fruit but bitterness on their part.  Just love them where they are – and love yourself in the place that you are without the need to compare in any way.

EULOGY= the point where we say goodby to those that we feel obligated to wait for or help.  It is knowing that by saying goodbye, we are terminating our vibrational connection with them so that they are free to experience their and suffering fully until they are done with it.  It is like saying goodbye to a loved one who you have known for your entire lifetime and the idea of letting them go is hard to endure . . . but what is actually happening is, you will now be able to live fully in the moment.  Yesterdays memories are celebrated, todays memories are appreciated, and tomorrows possibilities are initiated from a place where all is well.  This is how we truly honour a soul who is still in the lower realms of vibrational research.  We pray for them . . . we celebrate them . . . we honour them for having the courage and the faith to find their way.

EXPERIMENT~EXPLORE~EXPERIENCE~EXPOSURE~EXPLOSION~EXCITEMENT

TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: gives us a heads up for the month ahead as we enter into the closure of another year of transformation.  We are standing on the cusp of a new reality that requires us to enter into it with a clear conscience and an open heart.  In order to facilitate this entry, we will be going through the test of soul searching, fire flaring, faith testing experiences.  Just as the Earth is now releasing the pressure that comes from within and brings all of the things that are no longer able to be hidden to the surface – so too will humanity go through this tribulation.

We see it as Mother Nature explodes with fire and water in every area of the world, we see it in the governments who are being exposed for the control and manipulation of humanity that has brought endless suffering, we see it in the relationships we share with friends and family, strangers and soul mates, and even in our own inner soul conflicts that the eruptions can no longer be contained . . . the time for transformational healing is now.  As we enter into the month of December . . . the 12th house of creation . . . be prepared to surrender your need to struggle or control any form of outcome.  It will only make the process more painful.  Laugh at yourself, at your fears, at your judgements and how they have played out in your relationships with everything and everyone.  The game is over.  Lets just let LOVE do what it does best . . . forgive, and let live.

EXPERIMENT= our soul contract that involves the entire human race and our research with judgment, fear and emotions.
EXPLORE= travelling deep into our unconsciousness to reveal any hidden judgements and fears we have chosen to learn from.
EXPERIENCE= the understanding we have gained by living through karma and all its conditions that is now wisdom.
EXPOSURE= reveals what is within us that we are not aware of but bring it to the surface in our relationships with self and each other.
EXPLOSION= the moment when it all erupts and spills out for the entire world to see because we are trusting it is time to release it all.
EXCITEMENT= a feeling that replaces judgement and fear and allows us to move into the next level of vibrational experiment where we take everything we have learned, all of the feelings we possess, the wisdom we have gained and the limitless expansion we are bringing to the the universal evolution of mankind and celebrate a job well done.