Category: HEALING

ISSUE~LESSON~BLESSING

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TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: shares the way we begin each day and how it determines what direction we will go with our intentions and directions.  Each moment is designed for us to make a choice and based on that choice we enter into the next moment with what we have envisioned for ourselves.  It is a challenging experience to be able to take the time to consciously observe what is being chosen and what it actually means.  We are never a victim, although it can sure feel that way – the only person that can set us free is ourselves.  When a thought is not in alignment with our best interest or wellbeing, why do we follow it as if it is the only pathway open?  Catching ourselves doing that is such an important art of feeling free and in alignment with our best version of who we can be.

A thought that enters into our awareness is just that  – a thought.  It is not a law, a rule, a sentence, a direct order and yet we can so easily feel it is there because we need to do something in reaction to that thought.  That is where the feelings come in – they are designed as a guidance system that will usher us forward into more of the same thoughts, or push us in a new direction that is away from those thoughts.  It is so subtle that we are rarely able to catch the moment so we can redirect the reactions and actions we can take.  A thought is simply a vibration from the field of quantum energy that shows us one way out of an endless and infinite realm of possibilities.  Why would we choose the thought that least supports our happiness, health or wealth potential?  That is the old way.

Feelings are designed to help us sort through our thoughts until we find one that is more in alignment with our true desires and beliefs about what we deserve.  If a thought feels good – follow it.  If a thought does not feel good – move in another direction until you find a resonation with the new direction.  Even though we may not have any idea what that direction may bring, it is in our best interest and evolutionary development to follow it through until we discover where it takes us.

The heart will always be the ultimate judge of your choices and decisions.  When it feels good – we radiate a loving, kind and caring light.  When it does not resonate, we emirate fear, judgement, anger or shame . . . that is not a direction we want to continue to follow.  Moment to moment, step by step, feeling by feeling and choosing loving thoughts will take us where we need to be and will flourish in a healthy happy way – every day.  It would be foolish to think we can follow what someone else thinks of us and ever end up in a good place.  Or to interpret what we think others expect of us as a way of doing service – this will only lead to disappointment and discontentment.  Not a happy place to be in any moment.  Choose your moments wisely – and you will feel at peace.

ISSUE= A thought that we are having that does not resonate with our inner feelings or heart reactions so we blow it up into something bigger to look at until we see it clearly.
LESSON= An opportunity to learn something about ourselves that will help us grow, evolve, change, heal and expand our awareness in a more loving way.
BLESSING= An instant reward or feeling of contentment, peace, love and acceptance that comes when we have fully understood and assumed ownership of our choices as part of our souls development.

LOSS~GRIEF~MOURNING

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TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: brings a new awareness to my soul as I mourn the loss of my best friend.   It is not that I regret her passing, but take time to celebrate her life.  When we have a kindred spirit who understands who we are at the deepest level of our being and embraces all that comes with that, we are truly blessed.  Not everyone can accept us in that way and when we find someone that can, the joy and pleasure of their role in our lives is irreplaceable.  As a sacred bond it is important to realize that not everyone finds that kind of friendship and kinship to share. I feel truly honoured that I have had that experience.

Learning to embrace the loss is part of what challenges us to let go.  Not to let go of the memories, the special moments or the challenging ones, but to truly honour that they existed.  Focusing on the blessings becomes a way of being comforted and soothed as the days unfold.  In those moments when the mind forgets they are no longer present, it is being ok with that thought where you want to pick up the phone and tell them something that just happened they way you used to do.  It is taking a moment and making that call on a higher level where you speak with them in spirit and share the same message knowing that on some plain of existence they are smiling and responding with the usual enthusiasm or interest.  There is no distance when it comes to spirit – and in that way our friendship continues.

LOSS= the sense of finality that comes with the passing of a dear friend or loved one
GRIEF= the process we go through as we learn to let go while still holding sacred memories
MOURNING= the sense of empty space that comes when someone is no longer there

SYMPATHY~EMPATHY~EULOGY

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TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: reveals the illusions we live through as we evolve and ascend into our highest vibrational state of grace.  This takes many lifetimes, and a willingness to allow the development of our soul to enhance our true purpose in being.  We attract those who support our quest for learning at the vibrational level we are currently at.  To evolve past that, we must be ready and willing to let EVERYTHING & EVERYONE go.  This does not mean the end of our existence as a human being, but it initiates the transformation of our humanness into our divine being.  The difference is our capacity to love ourselves and others equally.

I have discovered through my meditative process, that I have been living with a severe addiction (we all have them), but mine was being addicted to helping people who do not want to be helped.  I now realize that it was not my job in the first place, but as a caring and compassionate soul I felt it was my DUTY to at least offer to support them while they were still asleep so they could feel loved and appreciated.  This illusion is no longer present as I have finally woken up to the truth of who I am, and the clarity is amazing.  Here are my revelations to share with you . . .

Source showed me in a very clear vision how the current energy exchange is working when we think we are helping and healing, we are actually contributing to the issue and illness of our loved ones!  The vision was of someone with a cold coming and talking to me.  They were obviously sick, complaining about their state of suffering, while coughing in my face.  They wanted me to hear their story – they wanted me to feel their pain – then needed me to feel sorry for them.  So a few moments later (days in the vision) I was coughing, sneezing and feeling miserable with the same cold they had.  Now they appeared again and said – I know how you feel – I had it too.  What they were actually letting me know, was that they were glad I was still at the same place they were in the need to suffer.  It was not a gift of compassion or caring that was being shared, but the unwillingness to heal their own situation as long as they could get others to stay suffering with them.

SYMPATHY= feeling sorry for self or others who are experiencing difficult, challenging or hurtful times in their quest for knowledge and ascension is not helping at all.  This does not help them, but contributes to their willingness to remain in their illusion as long as we are willing to listen to their sad stories, we support them in their state of stuckness.  The illusion is that they are asking for help, when in fact, they simply want you to feel sorry for them and to listen to their list of reasons why they are so unhappy and alone in their illusion.  When we do sympathize – we lower our vibration to where they are and join them in their sorrow or sickness.  This will never achieve the upliftment of either one . . . it simply perpetuates the state of stuck for both people.

EMPATHY= the feeling of compassion and understanding that comes from living through similar experiences that have taught us to be more patient and kind with others who are still exploring the state of suffering through not allowing themselves to fully heal.  It is knowing that we can only inspire them to make it through to a better place by showing them it is possible.  No amount of help or giving directions and instructions will help them break through to where you are.  It is by example alone that we can be of service here.  Do not try to relate to their state of being in any way.  It is a fruitless idea that will not bear any fruit but bitterness on their part.  Just love them where they are – and love yourself in the place that you are without the need to compare in any way.

EULOGY= the point where we say goodby to those that we feel obligated to wait for or help.  It is knowing that by saying goodbye, we are terminating our vibrational connection with them so that they are free to experience their and suffering fully until they are done with it.  It is like saying goodbye to a loved one who you have known for your entire lifetime and the idea of letting them go is hard to endure . . . but what is actually happening is, you will now be able to live fully in the moment.  Yesterdays memories are celebrated, todays memories are appreciated, and tomorrows possibilities are initiated from a place where all is well.  This is how we truly honour a soul who is still in the lower realms of vibrational research.  We pray for them . . . we celebrate them . . . we honour them for having the courage and the faith to find their way.