Category: BELIEFS

SHAME~BLAME~GAME

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TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: exposes our vulnerable side by revealing that when we are in a place of blaming or shaming others, we are playing a game called guilty.  The idea is that if we are not able to witness and own our own shadow self, then we start to focus on the shadow in others as a way of learning and observing from a distance.  It is easy to point out the faults and flaws in others . . . we are very good at that.  We don’t have any investment in the emotional side of how this came to be, why they are in the place they are in, or even what it is that they are so unhappy about that they would spend their precious life force and energy blaming others.  We are then actually contributing to the game as a cheer leader . . . especially if we are willing to listen to their stories over and over again without challenging them to wake up and see things differently.

Every time we feel the need to blame someone else, we miss the opportunity to heal that part of us that is the same as they are.  Like attracts like.  If your friends and family are investing in the need to gossip, complain, blame or shame someone, then you are no different when you take the time to hear them.  Learning to take the fruit of the conversation and stand in front of your own soul mirror and ask yourself “How do I do this?”.  It may not be the exact same, but there will be a part of you that wants to blame them, or shame them for doing what they are doing.  That deep inner hurt and hate that we all have is very willing to participate in that sport.

Usually when you are someone who blames others – it comes from a place of guilt inside of you that feels you are to blame for something you have done . . . or not done and can’t seem to come to a place of peace with it.  It is a shadow that follows you everywhere you go . . . in your friendships, your relationships and your acquaintances with others on a less personal level.  It all adds up to a feeling of emptiness and loneliness that drains the joy and happiness out of your life.  Taking ownership without feeling the need to defend yourself  or offend anyone is the key to bringing back the joy in life.

BLAME= the need to make others at fault or wrong because we are feeling inadequate, incomplete and unhappy.
SHAME= the feeling of being wrong or wronged somehow for your choices and decisions that affected yourself and others
GAME= the energy of karma contributing to the same lesson being shared and exchanged over and over again without learning or growing.

BATS~BUTTERFLIES~BELIEFS

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TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: has us taking a look at the symbolism in life and how we interpret our world from the place we are most comfortable with.  If we live in a world of inner fear and insecurity, then we call upon the bat spirit to guide us through the darkness into the light.  Not too much light, because it can be much too painful to endure if you have been cave dwelling for a long time.  We tend to withdraw from life when we are feeling unheard, unloved, unwelcome or just plain ignored.  This inspires a season of being unwell whether it is physically, mentally, emotional, spiritually or all of the above.  The bat spirit uses sonar/radar to navigate the world that it cannot see – but its sensors light up the way and the time of isolation opens up to new adventures outside the walls of limitation.

The butterfly on the other hand, moves effortlessly through the light of day and goes about the business of discovering what is present and what is happening in the now moment.  No need to plan it all out, micro manage how it will work and unfold, but simply trusting that if it can do what it loves to do everywhere it lands – magical things will happen and it will always have its needs met in miraculous ways.  The nectar of life is in the sweetness of how we perceive each thing that we do, each part of who we are , and every aspect of what we have become.  Either way we are destined to succeed.

BATS= those who dare to live in the dark knowing that they can still find a way to be content, happy and alive and in that moment, the light comes on and the new reality is birthed.  The bat does not fear the darkness, but embraces it as a place of sanctuary and safety.  Through the use of intuitive senses it finds its way to anywhere it wants to go – and enjoys the journey.

BUTTERFLIES= those who love the idea of the light and how it can inspire endless opportunities for life to be experienced, but alas it is still just one moment, one blossom, one idea that makes it work well.

BELIEFS= the way we hold our heart into the light of who we are and set ourselves up for success or failure in everything we do.  Never be afraid to challenge yourself with either one as they both have a multitude of ways and perspectives to teach us about the art  of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.  One must first behold and identify the conditions and then through the art of forgiveness, compassion and patients transcend it into a higher state of consciousness where all is one and ALL IS WELL.

SYMPATHY~EMPATHY~EULOGY

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TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: reveals the illusions we live through as we evolve and ascend into our highest vibrational state of grace.  This takes many lifetimes, and a willingness to allow the development of our soul to enhance our true purpose in being.  We attract those who support our quest for learning at the vibrational level we are currently at.  To evolve past that, we must be ready and willing to let EVERYTHING & EVERYONE go.  This does not mean the end of our existence as a human being, but it initiates the transformation of our humanness into our divine being.  The difference is our capacity to love ourselves and others equally.

I have discovered through my meditative process, that I have been living with a severe addiction (we all have them), but mine was being addicted to helping people who do not want to be helped.  I now realize that it was not my job in the first place, but as a caring and compassionate soul I felt it was my DUTY to at least offer to support them while they were still asleep so they could feel loved and appreciated.  This illusion is no longer present as I have finally woken up to the truth of who I am, and the clarity is amazing.  Here are my revelations to share with you . . .

Source showed me in a very clear vision how the current energy exchange is working when we think we are helping and healing, we are actually contributing to the issue and illness of our loved ones!  The vision was of someone with a cold coming and talking to me.  They were obviously sick, complaining about their state of suffering, while coughing in my face.  They wanted me to hear their story – they wanted me to feel their pain – then needed me to feel sorry for them.  So a few moments later (days in the vision) I was coughing, sneezing and feeling miserable with the same cold they had.  Now they appeared again and said – I know how you feel – I had it too.  What they were actually letting me know, was that they were glad I was still at the same place they were in the need to suffer.  It was not a gift of compassion or caring that was being shared, but the unwillingness to heal their own situation as long as they could get others to stay suffering with them.

SYMPATHY= feeling sorry for self or others who are experiencing difficult, challenging or hurtful times in their quest for knowledge and ascension is not helping at all.  This does not help them, but contributes to their willingness to remain in their illusion as long as we are willing to listen to their sad stories, we support them in their state of stuckness.  The illusion is that they are asking for help, when in fact, they simply want you to feel sorry for them and to listen to their list of reasons why they are so unhappy and alone in their illusion.  When we do sympathize – we lower our vibration to where they are and join them in their sorrow or sickness.  This will never achieve the upliftment of either one . . . it simply perpetuates the state of stuck for both people.

EMPATHY= the feeling of compassion and understanding that comes from living through similar experiences that have taught us to be more patient and kind with others who are still exploring the state of suffering through not allowing themselves to fully heal.  It is knowing that we can only inspire them to make it through to a better place by showing them it is possible.  No amount of help or giving directions and instructions will help them break through to where you are.  It is by example alone that we can be of service here.  Do not try to relate to their state of being in any way.  It is a fruitless idea that will not bear any fruit but bitterness on their part.  Just love them where they are – and love yourself in the place that you are without the need to compare in any way.

EULOGY= the point where we say goodby to those that we feel obligated to wait for or help.  It is knowing that by saying goodbye, we are terminating our vibrational connection with them so that they are free to experience their and suffering fully until they are done with it.  It is like saying goodbye to a loved one who you have known for your entire lifetime and the idea of letting them go is hard to endure . . . but what is actually happening is, you will now be able to live fully in the moment.  Yesterdays memories are celebrated, todays memories are appreciated, and tomorrows possibilities are initiated from a place where all is well.  This is how we truly honour a soul who is still in the lower realms of vibrational research.  We pray for them . . . we celebrate them . . . we honour them for having the courage and the faith to find their way.