SYMPATHY~EMPATHY~EULOGY

TODAY’S LIFE LESSON: reveals the illusions we live through as we evolve and ascend into our highest vibrational state of grace.  This takes many lifetimes, and a willingness to allow the development of our soul to enhance our true purpose in being.  We attract those who support our quest for learning at the vibrational level we are currently at.  To evolve past that, we must be ready and willing to let EVERYTHING & EVERYONE go.  This does not mean the end of our existence as a human being, but it initiates the transformation of our humanness into our divine being.  The difference is our capacity to love ourselves and others equally.

I have discovered through my meditative process, that I have been living with a severe addiction (we all have them), but mine was being addicted to helping people who do not want to be helped.  I now realize that it was not my job in the first place, but as a caring and compassionate soul I felt it was my DUTY to at least offer to support them while they were still asleep so they could feel loved and appreciated.  This illusion is no longer present as I have finally woken up to the truth of who I am, and the clarity is amazing.  Here are my revelations to share with you . . .

Source showed me in a very clear vision how the current energy exchange is working when we think we are helping and healing, we are actually contributing to the issue and illness of our loved ones!  The vision was of someone with a cold coming and talking to me.  They were obviously sick, complaining about their state of suffering, while coughing in my face.  They wanted me to hear their story – they wanted me to feel their pain – then needed me to feel sorry for them.  So a few moments later (days in the vision) I was coughing, sneezing and feeling miserable with the same cold they had.  Now they appeared again and said – I know how you feel – I had it too.  What they were actually letting me know, was that they were glad I was still at the same place they were in the need to suffer.  It was not a gift of compassion or caring that was being shared, but the unwillingness to heal their own situation as long as they could get others to stay suffering with them.

SYMPATHY= feeling sorry for self or others who are experiencing difficult, challenging or hurtful times in their quest for knowledge and ascension is not helping at all.  This does not help them, but contributes to their willingness to remain in their illusion as long as we are willing to listen to their sad stories, we support them in their state of stuckness.  The illusion is that they are asking for help, when in fact, they simply want you to feel sorry for them and to listen to their list of reasons why they are so unhappy and alone in their illusion.  When we do sympathize – we lower our vibration to where they are and join them in their sorrow or sickness.  This will never achieve the upliftment of either one . . . it simply perpetuates the state of stuck for both people.

EMPATHY= the feeling of compassion and understanding that comes from living through similar experiences that have taught us to be more patient and kind with others who are still exploring the state of suffering through not allowing themselves to fully heal.  It is knowing that we can only inspire them to make it through to a better place by showing them it is possible.  No amount of help or giving directions and instructions will help them break through to where you are.  It is by example alone that we can be of service here.  Do not try to relate to their state of being in any way.  It is a fruitless idea that will not bear any fruit but bitterness on their part.  Just love them where they are – and love yourself in the place that you are without the need to compare in any way.

EULOGY= the point where we say goodby to those that we feel obligated to wait for or help.  It is knowing that by saying goodbye, we are terminating our vibrational connection with them so that they are free to experience their and suffering fully until they are done with it.  It is like saying goodbye to a loved one who you have known for your entire lifetime and the idea of letting them go is hard to endure . . . but what is actually happening is, you will now be able to live fully in the moment.  Yesterdays memories are celebrated, todays memories are appreciated, and tomorrows possibilities are initiated from a place where all is well.  This is how we truly honour a soul who is still in the lower realms of vibrational research.  We pray for them . . . we celebrate them . . . we honour them for having the courage and the faith to find their way.